How Does He Feel About Me Tarot Spread

How does your person feel about you? Some people can be hard to read. Or they are closed off when it comes to showing emotion, so this tarot spread will help you shed light on a person’s feelings for you. The How Does He Feel About Me Tarot Spread is a really simple way to give you the clarity you are looking for.

Prepare For the Reading

Before you begin, make sure you are calm, grounded, and centered. You won’t get an accurate reading if your emotions are all over the place (sad, angry, frustrated, nervous). It might be helpful to do some meditation. Even closing your eyes and taking a few deep breaths will help. 

You might want to set the scene by lighting a candle and some incense. I like to pass my cards through some sort of sacred smoke before I begin (incense, sage, palo santo). I find that ritual creates the right atmosphere.  

Shuffle your cards and think about the person in question. I like to picture the person’s face in my mind.  Ask your question aloud or say it in your mind as you shuffle. You’ll know when it’s time to start pulling cards. 

Some people will place a picture of the person in front of them or an object the person gave you. Or even one of the person’s items like a piece of jewelry or clothing. But that isn’t necessary to do an accurate reading. 

How Does He Feel About Me Tarot Spread

Here’s the basic tarot spread. Feel free to tweak it to suit your own needs. And remember, you can always pull an extra card or two to clarify the information.

Card One: What Does He/She/They Think About me?

What impression does your person have about you? How do they see you? This can also give you a clue to this person’s feelings for you.  

Card Two: What Does He/She/They Feel About me? 

Okay, this is the hard one. This will give you a sense of your person’s feelings for you at the moment.  I find that asking a bigger, broader question yields a better outcome in a tarot reading. Oftentimes people will ask, does this person love me? Yes or no questions are not that helpful. People are complex. We might love someone, but we also could be frustrated by the person,  or maybe we are nervous around them.  You want to get more information about their emotional state. 

What cards should you be looking for?  Cups symbolize emotion in the deck. So, the more Cups there are, the better. Some key cards to look for are the Ace of Cups, Two of Cups, Three of Cups, Five of Cups, Six of Cups, Ten of Cups.  Here’s a quick cheat sheet for all of the card tarot meanings. 

Card Three:  What Actions Will He/She/They Take Towards Me? 

 This is a really important question. It’s one thing for a person to have feelings about you, but is he or she or they going to act on those feelings? For this position, I’m always on the lookout for communication.  Cards that indicate communication are the Page of Wands, Page of Cups, Page of Pentacles, and the Page of Swords.

Another good sign would be the Suit of Wands.  Wands are about taking action, passion, creativity, a spark.  I think of these cards as having a fire lit underneath you. It’s time to make a move!  In particular, look for the Eight of Wands,  Knight of Wands, or the Ace of Wands. 

Card Four: What Do I Need To Know About This Situation?

Sometimes, when our heart is involved, we don’t see the situation clearly. There may be something that you don’t know or something that you don’t really notice about the situation. This is an opportunity to get some clarity. 

Card Five: Advice

This is an important question that I always include in my readings. Whatever you find out, this will give you some guidance on your path forward. 

There you have it. The How Does He Feel About Me Tarot Spread. Hopefully, this will shed some light on your relationship.  Remember, your state of mind matters when it comes to a relationship reading. Make sure you calm and centered when you start pulling cards. 

Still not getting the clarity you seek? You might want to order a private reading with me. Or you could watch one of my YouTube videos posted this week for your particular sign to shed light on your situation.