Despite the name, this tarot spread is for everyone. Ignore the gender. The Does He Think About Me Tarot Spread is focused on whether or not your partner is still thinking about you, and connecting to you energetically. Are you in their thoughts? Is there still a chance for this connection to work?
I created this spread because I get this question a lot from my tarot clients and I thought it would offer a quick and easy reading for someone who is unsure about their partner’s thoughts.
Card #1 Does He Think About Me? Or Does She Think About Me?
This is a yes or no sort of card. You won’t proceed further on in the spread, if the person is not thinking about you. Broadly speaking, you want a card that is in the upright. Reversed cards indicate blocked energy and are most often a ‘no” answer.
What you are really looking for here is Swords and Cups. Swords represent thought energy in the deck. And Cups represent emotions. If the answer is yes, you will see something like the Nine of Swords, the Ten of Swords, the Page of Swords, the Ace of Cups, the Two of Cups, the Five of Cups, and the Six of Cups.
There are many other possibilities as well, so don’t be discouraged if you don’t get one of those cards.
Card #2 What Does my Person Think About Me?
The purpose of this card is to determine whether or not this person is having good thoughts about you or bad ones. They could be dreaming about a reunion with you or they could be thinking about all of the fights you had.
Some conflict cards in the deck are the Five of Wands, Seven of Wands, Four of Pentacles, Nine of Wands. Some positive cards you could see are the Four of Wands, the Three of Cups, the Six of Cups, the Ten of Cups, and The Lovers.
By the way, this list is not exhaustive. So, if your card doesn’t show up here, don’t worry.
Card #3 How do They Feel About Me?
This will tell you whether or not the person still has some emotion for you. It’s okay, if there is a negative card that shows up here. Why? Because people have mixed emotions. The direct opposite of love, isn’t hate. It’s indifference. So, if this person has strong emotions about you, that’s a good thing. You still get under their skin.
In general, Cups are a good sign. Cups carry emotion in the deck. Wands indicate passion for someone, and the willingness to take action. Pentacles, in general, usually mean a person values a connection and they are willing to put in the hard work. I would be concerned about seeing Swords here, which can sometimes mean someone is using their head and not their heart.
You will want to clarify this card if you get something like the Seven Of Wands (defensive behavior) by drawing another card. If they are still emotional about you, there is a chance of reconciliation.
One card I would be really concerned about is the Four of Cups. It indicates indifference, someone who isn’t happy about their options and opportunities.
Card 4: Will my Person Take Any Action Towards Me?
Now that you know your person is thinking about you, and they have some emotional energy directed towards you, are they going to do anything about it? That’s the really important question here. This will tell you if your person will be doing anything to work on this connection.
Here’s what you should look for. If you see any Pages, that’s a great sign. Page of Wands, Page of Cups, Page of Pentacles indicate communication. And the Page of Swords means your person is thinking about you and maybe even watching you from afar. Probably on social media.
Knights are another good sign. Knights travel in the deck. They go after things, the pursue something. This would mean, your person is willing to take some action and effort towards you.
Broadly speaking, it’s good to see Pentacles or Wands showing up here. Pentacles indicate valuing a relationship and being willing to put in the hard work. And Wands show a passion for you and the connection. They are a desire to do something.
Card 5 Advice for My Situation
This card will point you in the right direction. I always ask for advice at the end of my tarot readings. This will tell you if you should wait to hear from your person or if you should contact them. Or maybe there’s something else you need to do here.
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